The Words Of A Virgo Diva

Ladies, All Men Aren't Dogs

2011-01-22T01:00:00.000-08:00

I know sometimes as females we seem to find ourselves in a rut of a relationship. We get mistreated and dogged out. The man that we love has done us beyond wrong and doesn't respect us. In life we all have to get "a no good man" so we'll know how to appreciate "a good man" when God blesses us with one. Well all cross that obstacle of a dog. Those type of men are what they are and for some reason we as women allow them to lower our self-esteem to the point where we think that they're the best for us and that no man will ever want us because were not good enough. So what do we do? We stay with the man that mistreats us because we feel like hopefully he'll change. WRONG, he's gonna keep treating you the same way as long as your with him. He's gonna keep cheating on you, controlling you and your every move, talking down to you and making you feel like your less of a woman. Do find comfort in that ladies because your better than that all you need to do is looking in the mirror put a smile on your beautiful faces and say "I am Beautiful, I am a great woman, and I deserve better". Once you can build up the courage to tell that man that its over than you can move on with your life. One thing you don't wanna do when you kick that dog to the curb is communicate with him. Because all he'll do is try to get in your head by playing innocent and acting sympathetic by saying things like: "Baby, i'm a changed man it took you leaving me to realize what i had", or "Oh baby i need help, i dont mean to do you wrong growing up that's all i seen, i need help and i want you to be apart of it", or "Baby i didn't know what i had until you were gone i'll never do you wrong again just give me a second chance". Ladies dont fall for it all you do is wish him well and keep it moving. Now while your single take the time to re-build what that dog tore down. Go shopping, get a new hair style, pamper yourself, build your self-esteem back up, get to know you again. The worst thing to do is try to look for a new man fresh outta ya old relationship, because all he'll be is a rebound and he may catch real feelings for you and you may not be feeling him like that and you'll end up hurting him in the process. So just wait awhile before you get back into the dating scene. Now once you've built yourself back up and your feeling more confident and you start dating again make sure that you NEVER take your frustrations out on the new man, the frustrations that the old man caused. From day one be real with the new guy that your interested in. Let him know that this is your first date in however many months. weeks, or even years. If the question about ya last relationship comes up be real. Let him know that the last guy you were with did you wrong, he lowered your self-esteem, and he made you feel like no man would ever want you. Then flip it and let the new guy know that that was your past and your lookin forward towards your future, your more confident and your self-esteem is no longer under the ground. Remember ladies there are still good men out there and they are willing to love and be loved. So you may have been hurt in the past and it maybe hard for you to trust but it's all a process and if your willing to go through the process it only shows that deep down inside your willing to give love another try. As always Stay Strong, Stay True, Be you♥

"Me Time" It's Needed

2011-01-14T22:34:00.000-08:00

Some times in life you may feel like giving up. You may feel like your all alone in a room full of people. You might feel like the world is out to get you and that nothing in the world can go right. Thats ok we all get like that sometimes. Whenever you get to that point just know that it's time to take time to yourself, basically its "me time". All you have to do is get away from everything even if you gotta turn ya phone off and leave the world behind to do so than do it. We all deserve a break from reality, and time away from stress and others)loved ones, husbands, wives, boyfriends, girlfriends etc....). People may not understand when you do so, but thats ok because your not doing it to please others, your doing it for you and you health and your state of mind. Take a mini vacation ALONE. If you gotta rent a hotel room for the weekend(i prefer one that has a spa, and a pool lol) to make yourself happy and stress free do it. As women we carry so much weight(some men also) on our backs and we have a tendency to always push ourselve Alot. But i encourage everyone to take some "me time" and get away from all that is stress and toils of life thats making you unhappy. Its theraputic and it will do you and ya heart some good. As always, Stay strong, Stay true, Be you♥

Powerful Couple #3 Tisha Campbell And Duane Martin♥

2010-09-25T11:41:00.000-07:00

Tisha Campbell and Duane Martin are one of those couples that are put on the back burner to all these Hollywood most talked about couples. They have been together for 17yrs and married for 11yrs and in the words of Duane "i ain't going nowhere,
I will chew her a** up and swallow it before I let somebody else have her". What i love about this couple is when he proposed to her he didn't say the traditional "will you marry me" or "will you be my wife" he said "Will you be my best friend forever". It really doesn't get much better than that. For the past few years there has been rumors that they were divorced and split up. The things media does just to get a story smh. But contrary to what people thing this couple is still together ans still very much in love. The couple has survived many rumors including her husband being gay, through it all they make it work and i love that about them. The couple also has two son, The oldest name is Xen he is a child that is autistic. The couple deals with it just like anyone else would they give their son the best care and education that is needed for him but they treat him just like a normal child they don't treat him any different from their other son Ezekiel. They go on to say that having a son who is autistic makes you empathize with others, they feel that things could be worst but glad that they are not. I mean no parent wants their child to have any type of illness we all want our kids to be healthy but in the event that they are not we make the most of it be cause there is no use crying over spilled milk. The couple are active supporters and participants at many functions for Autistic children an they support it 100%. They let the rumors ride because they do not encourage or entertain the rumors. The reason i so love this couple is the same reason why i love all powerful couples, they have stand ed the tests of time and they are really and deeply in love its not just for the camera its the real thing and i love that about them, one known fact is that they hooked up my first powerful couple Will and Jada. For the way they love each other and there family life and their dedication to each other is the reason why Tisha and Duane are one of my powerful couples.

Powerful Couple #2 Angela Bassett and Courtney Vance

2010-09-15T10:01:00.000-07:00

Angela Bassett and her Husband Courtney Vance are such a lovely couple. To me they are one of those couples that are forgotten about because they like to live their lives out of the limelight.
The coupke has been married for 13 yrs and they share two twin childrn(1boy 1girl). They like my last powerful couple have standed the test of time and temptations in their busy career. They are also successful actor and actress. What i love most about this couple is their commitment to one another. They are both private people(so paparazzi fall back) and they are both God fearing. Angela i look up to because i find she loves to reach out and help others less fortunate than her. She donates money and her time to many organizations for terminally ill people(I'm support the breast cancer foundation for now, when i get big time like her i wanna help terminally ill children with cancer). She takes not just herself to these events but she also takes her 2 children so that they can see it's people out her in this world that need help. She also does it so that her children learn to appreciate everything in life that they have because it is always some one out there that's worst off than you are. Courtney on the other hand is the same way. He an his wife are big supporters of the Boys & Girls club. I suggest people look into this couple they have done alot for people and they are what i can honestly call a powerful couple beside every great man is a great woman and i can use this quote on them and feel great about it. See they maybe rich and wealthy but they also know how to give back which is the reason why they are truly blesses. Not to mention Angela Bassett looks good to be 52(lol). But seriously i so look up to there marriage and i ask that god continues to bless them. before i leave i just wanna say, Be careful how you treat a stranger, because you might be entertaining an angel unaware(its in the bible).

Where I've been......

2010-09-08T09:14:00.000-07:00

OK so I've been absent for a few days and here's why. First off i was sick and when i say sick i mean ill. i had cough, cold, congestion, all of thee above. Then i went on vacation so i was wrapped up in that. But now i am back and i have a Lot to blog about I'm on my couples kick this week and the entry below starts it off. I have a few powerful couples to blog about then I'm back to the help of my females out there. When I'm blogging about females and helping them it's coming from my own personal experience most of the time and what i learned from it. I wanna help the next woman out there that might go through the same things i want them to be well prepared, because i know i wasn't. I'm not up here to judge anyone because who am i to judge, I'm only human just like the next person is. But I'm up here to offer advice to those in need. I wish someone was around to do it before me because it would've helped me through my rough and tough times. What needs to be realized is we as women have got to learn to stick together and not try and compete all the time. Life is too short for the bull. So I'm here to say lets get it together sisters(black and white i don't discriminate) because all we have is each other. With that said my goal is to uplift as well as educate. So from here on out I'll try my hardest to do at least one post a day(after school or before school even after homework). So blog world here i come, here i am♥

Powerful Couple #1 Will And Jada♥

2010-09-08T08:33:00.000-07:00

They say beside every great man is a great woman. In this case it is so true. Will and Jada are a powerful, loving, and successful black couple. They've withstand the tests of time and they've jumped over every obstacle together. Through the limelight, this harsh society, and even with their busy careers they've made it work. I admire Will and Jada's relationship because they're able to be lovers and best friends. they kept the spark going for 13 years. Together they can be serious, professional, and goofy all at the same time. The really compliment each other and they are very family oriented. The thing that most relationships lack is the ability to make it. They let pressure and others get to them and forget to communicate with their spouse. When times get tough they wanna run out because they are scared of the What Ifs. Every relationship/marriage goes in cycles and if you want it to work you need each other. People look at Will and Jada and say "they're rich and successful of course they made it last all this time." Wrong, do you see how many rich and successful couples don't make it? It has nothing to do with what they have. There were times when their careers kept them apart for days ,weeks,months at a time but they made it work because of their love and dedication for one another. Their jobs as actor and actress is how they met in the first place, so of course they're not gonna let their jobs come between them. Here are some quotes from Will and Jada on their marriage and love by both Will and Jada.

Jada: "I will throw my career away before I let it break up our marriage. I made it clear to Will. I'd throw it away completely."
Source: USA Weekend

Will about Jada: "With Jada I stood up in front of God and my family and said, 'till death us do part'. Divorce cannot be an option ... I honestly believe there is no woman for me but Jada. No-one can handle me the way she does ... Once you feel someone locked in on you, it's no contest. This is it. I can't imagine what anyone else would offer."

Will about Jada: "She's someone I can talk to about anything."
Source: Ebony, February 1997, page 57.

Will: "Families are like a business. The key is one person having a vision of what it needs to be and being able to pull everyone together. That's Jada for sure."

Will and Jada to me are the definition of one of the sucessful black couples that i truely admire. You can say whatever you want about them, but one thing you can't say is that they failed be cause despite what you may think they are madly in love with each other, and they're love is real. So before i go i just wanna say True love, Real love still exists. Don't count it out because you don't have it, it just hasn't found you yet.

Fighting Temptation

2010-08-23T11:47:00.000-07:00

Why is it that when your single it seems as if no one wants to be bothered with you? But as soon as you are in a relationship every man in the world is trying to get your attention? Its called a test people you must learn to resist temptation it can get you in a world of trouble. The reason why the men want you when you begin a new relationship is because the man that you with gave you glow, a new attitude, and, a new walk. The men all over the world can see how radiant you are. Don't allow that temptation ruin that glow. Stick with the man that gave you that glow, attitude, and walk because that temptationn will take it all away and leave you high and dry. Always choose commitment over temptation. Temptation doesn't want a commitment, temptation wants to be with you for just that moment because after you allow temptation in the glow that commitment created slowly but surely fades away, and to temptation you no longer look the same, you no longer look the way you did to them. As the saying goes thr grass is not greener on the other side. Don't lose your treasure by chasing a dime.

What Are Your Worth?

2010-08-23T00:38:00.000-07:00

Ok, so as of late i've been hearing alot of females saying there aren't any good men and that men are all the same that they all want one thing. Men only take what you set out for them, if your constantly flaunting your self in front of them, o course they're onlygonna want one thing. We as women have to learn how to love ourselves first, because if you don't love yourself no one else will. You have to learn how to find yourself, be confident in your ability to grow within yourself before you try to make someone else love you. You have to set limits when your searching for someone to be apart of your life. Make sure you have your priorities in check and that you have something to offer in the relationship other than your body. Know what you want in a relationship before you go looking for one, You'll end up with alot of heartbreak by setteling for less. A relationship takes work, it has stages so that it can grow.

Ladies need to understand that they must treat themselves as queens. A man will respect you if you show that you have respect for yourself. NEVER allow a man take that from you, because he can break you if he takes your self-respect from you then you'll be like putty in his hand.

The last thing i wanna say is stay strong, Stay true, be you♥

A Poets Moment

2010-08-21T22:22:00.001-07:00

As i sit here i close my eyes i invison you sitting right by my side, we decide to take a ride on passions wave, you tell me to relax as you misbehave. I lay back and obey and let you have your way. As i feel the passion increase i tell you to stop and to dive in deep, my wish is your command and what i feel next makes the world collapse and whats left is you and me making love endlessly.

♥2 Years♥

2008-12-11T04:13:00.000-08:00

Well today has got to be a very special day. Today two years ago my bookie committed a crime and stole my heart. Still to this day it feels like it did when we first started dating. These past two years have been the best two years i've had in my life, and i owe it all to my bookie. He is the best thing i could have asked for. He is my true knight in shinning armor. No matter what i will always and forever love this man. He is the light of my life he makes me smile just from the thought of being with him. There is no man(Besides god lol) That can take his place. Simply what i'm trying to say is Happy 2 Year Anniversary Bookie And I Love You Forever And A Day♥

♥Another Diva♥

2008-11-12T11:34:00.001-08:00

♥Raven -Symone' Christina Pearman♥

Here we have raven. Now i aint gonna lie but i've been a fan of her style since thats so raven started

Raven started out as a model from 1986-1989. She appeared in commercials for cool whip, ritz crackers and mand other products as a child. Shes been acting since 1986, And making music since 1993. What a busy life for a child.

Well known fact is that raven dropped the symone from her name when she began her run on the show "That's So Raven." When it debuted in 2003. Many people fell in love with raven during the run of the cosby show, And on hanging with mr. cooper. I personally can say i lo9ved her on the cosby show.

Raven had ambitions for a recording career as well, and signed with MCA when she was five years old, becoming the youngest artist ever signed to the label. Her debut single, "That's What Little Girls Are Made Of," was released in 1993, the year she turned eight, as part of the LP Here's To New Dreams. That same year she was cast in Hangin' With Mr. Cooper, another top-rated sitcom, as Nicole, the young daughter of Cooper's cousin.

She made her film debut in 1994 in the remake of the 1930s series Little Rascals, playing Stymie's girlfriend. In 1998 she was cast in the Eddie Murphy comedy, Doctor Dolittle

Raven is a very established young woman. She Also Has Gotten A Few Awards:Young Artists Award for exceptional performance by a young artist under nine, for The Cosby Show, 1991; Image Award for outstanding performance in a youth/children's program, for That's So Raven, 2004.

Albums
Here's To New Dreams, MCA, 1993.
Undeniable, Crash, 1999.

Films
Little Rascals, 1994.
Doctor Dolittle, 1998.
Doctor Dolittle 2, 2001.
Cheetah Girls, 2003.

Television
The Cosby Show, NBC, 1989-92.
Hangin' with Mr. Cooper, ABC, 1993-97.
(Voice) Kim Possible, Disney, 2002--.
That's So Raven, Disney, 2003--.

Further Reading
Daily Variety, August 18, 2003, p. 5, 8.
Ebony, May 1990, p. 106.
Entertainment Weekly, May 1, 1992, p. 20; April 30, 1999, p. 95; October 17, 2003, p. 42.
Essence, October 2003, p. 148.
Houston Chronicle, November 27, 2003, p. 2.
Jet, July 5, 1993, p. 61; November 8, 1993, p. 58; September 8, 2003, p. 60.
Palm Beach Post, July 13, 2003, p. 5J.
People, May 20, 2002, p. 140.
Teen People, February 1, 2004, p. 93.
WWD, August 7, 2003, p. 12.

Thats only a few of her achievements. Lets Not Forget that raven is a fashion fanatic. Image is everything and she does her thing when it comes to dressing. With this blog i wanted to try something diffrent, i wanted to stray away from fashion to show you that a diva is much more than the clothes on her back and the stilettos on her feet(lol had to talk shoes). With this diva right here i was allowed to do that. She's what i wan to call my "Diva With Class,And Sass" So this goes to show you that a true diva handles her business.

Many People Dont Know This But Raven Also Auditioned for the role of effie for the movie dreamgirls.

Alos Raven And Myself Had A beef not Too Long ago CAuse She Was Tryna Stel my Man lol. But We Soon Realized That Our Friendship Was More Important Now Were Closer than Close lol.

Well This Concludes my Segmant Of This Said Diva. Remeber Be Yourself Wether People Respect You Or Not Because At The End Of The Day All That Matters Is How You Feel About Yourself.

Until Next Time. Stay True, Stay You.

Steeping Out Diva Style™

2008-09-07T21:22:00.001-07:00

Now I'm just giving you a little tour of the diva corridors.

What we have here are diva bags.

Divas such as myself have a tendency to carry around many things.

With these bags(Thanks To my Bookie For Purchasing Them I Love Them) The world would be curious to know whats in them.

I'm not gonna go into much detail about my thing i just wanted to post some things of mines.

Up Next What You Can See Are SOME of my shoes i'll post more later.

I didn't wanna overdose you.

♥Thanks To My Bookie For 6 out Of The 8 Pair.

Now those who know me know i have more shoes than this.

I just wanted to give you a taste of what i'm working with.

Just a little variety but stay tuned because i have more for you. But until then enjoy

♥Diva Poetry♥

2008-09-05T19:34:00.000-07:00

Attractions

♥Emothions running wild

I don't know what to say.

Should i tell you how i feel?

Or hide my feelings keeping them locked away.

Yes the grass is green

The sky is blue

So if i give you my heart, will you follw threw?

Will you take me as i am

Or slowly but surely try to change me?

See i am who i am

Always will be

You accept what you see

Or don't even approach me.

Cause i'm gonna keep it real

Always say whats on my mind.

I'm a diva can't you see.

Like fine wine i only get better with time.

So if your immature

You don't want a drink of this.

Cause i need a REAL MAN

Someone who understands

Just how delicate i am

A man that'll open up.

Who wants what he sees

Sees what he wants

Says what he means

Mean what he says.

Knows the value of a woman

How to treat her like a queen

Wait......................................................

What am i saying

I already found him

and he's the man of my dreams

I'm attracted to him

He's attracted to me

Use together makes WE

Something people dont understand

They dare to dream they can be what they see

When they see me standing beside him♥

Love is an understatement

We define the word Infatuation

♥Diva Essentials♥ Part 2

2008-08-25T17:51:00.000-07:00

♥Diva Essentials♥

Ok i'm back for a second time with what i call "Diva Needs".

What i'm doing with theses "Diva Needs" are giving you advice on the tools you need to becaome your own perfect diva.

This Is A DIVA MUST HAVE.

The Perfect Shoes. Every diva is what i call a shoe whore lol.

Most men don't understand why women love shoes so much.

A woman with the right shoes feel like she's on top of the world. Like nothing in this world can stop her she's on the move. When woman have on the perfect shoes the are powerful. Full of fire the demand you attention. Guess what? And we get it.

See the perfect shoe can give the shortest woman height and the shortest legs length.

Heels give alot of woman confiedence that she is what men want and that the world revolves around her and her shoes.

Divas never have a dull moment, that is until nature takes its course lol.

But finding the right shoes is easy. One day what u do is walk threw a shoe store your gonna see those shoes that make you say "oh those are cute" But don't stop at that keep walking until you see those shoes that male you say "Oh My God I gotta have thoes" Thats when you know know that thoes are the perfect shoes. Its an orgasmic experiance. But from them On You'll know how to pick The perfect Shoe. Now dont get me wrong you can buy the shoes that You approach and say oooohh thoes are cute because they still make a statement. But the perfect shoe will get you jealous stares from females that on puts a better pep in your step lol. They will also get you many male admirers. The Perfect Shoe Makes The Perfect You In a diva sense but the cute shoe is just as powerful too.

This concludes diva essentials 2 I will be back with part 3 of course so be ready for more diva Needs.

Caribbean Diva Rihanna

2008-08-25T16:51:00.000-07:00

Robyn "Rihanna" Fenty

What we have here is what i like to call "Carribean Diva"

Ms. Rihanna(Her Birth Name Is Up Top).

Early on before she became known she won beauty pagents, winning talent shows and all.

She was born in Barbados, St. Michael on Febuary 20, 1988.

She was signed to Def Jam Records in 2003.

Her musical influences are Beyonce, Alicia Keys And Mariah Carey.

SHe is the oldest she has 2 younger brothers.

Ok to the great stuff about her. She has been seen all over.

She lives for fashion week. Why you say? Just look at this picture of her.

From this picture alone you can tell she loves to dress-up.

She has a great sense of style and isn't afraid to let people know it.

She wears what she wants when she wants.

In this picture alone i love her outfit. Now i'm not a big fan of sequence but she is killing it what i also love is these shoes that i so could wear myself lol.

In this next picture Rihanna has on the shoes that was inspired by a african warrior. These boots had me going crazy when i saw them. I mean she dropped $12,000 Alone on these bad boys and they are so worth it.

Nothing eles has to be said these bad boys make their own statement as you can see that.

Rhianna is a world wide aartist. I respect everything about her. She's young, Talened and she is beautiful.

Besides being a singer/song writer she has many deals in the entertainment-related industry.

She has an endosement deal with nike and jcpenny which she signed in 2006.

With nike they used her "SOS" song as its commercial tune which put that single on top of the billboard charts.

Also in December 2006 she signed deals with covergirl to be their spokesperson.

She also signed deals to be the endorser for Miss Bisou, LG, CoverGirl Cosmetics, Clinique perfume, and Chevrolet.

Other than appearing in ads, she also made her screen debut by becoming a cameo for the movie Bring It On: All or Nothing, which was released on August 8, 2006, she also appeared in an episode of All My Children (soap opera) and Las Vegas (drama). Other than businesslike projects, she is also involved in several charity projects, such as AIDS charity for children and benefits for children with cancer.

Rihanna was nominated for Best New Artist for her SOS single at the 2006 MTV VMA. In the 2006 MTV VMA Japan, she won Best New Artist in A Video for her Pon de Replay. And 2006: MuchMusic Video Awards gave her the title of Best International Artist. 2006 Teen Choice Awards also awarded her Female Breakout Artist and Choice R&B Artist. 2006 MTV Europe Music Awards named her as Best R&B Artist. Moreover, the 2006 Billboard Music Awards awarded her Pop 100 Artist of the Year and the 2006 World Music Awards awarded her Best Selling Barbados Artist.

The 2006 Billboard Music Awards awarded her Hot 100 Artist of the Year and Much Music named her as Hottest Female of 2006.

This concludes my entry on this Diva.

Rihanna is a true diva she is educated, Independent, And caring. She can stand on her own two feet(In Stillettos And all lol).

This is why she's my diva of the week.

Yes Yes I Am Back And i have tons of things to bring you.

Until Next Time Stay True, Stay You DIVA♥

Vacation Or Something Like It lol

2008-08-18T10:59:00.000-07:00

Yes yes i know it's been tooo long and ya'll lost without me.

Lol well the diva is on a lil bootlegged vacation.

I'm just analyzing some changes in my life.

So when thats all said and done.

I'll be back at cha with some new divas.

So dont worry I aint forgotten about ya'll.

When the diva returns, You'll know

Stay You, Stay True

Love, The Virgo Diva herself.

♥Veronica♥

xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo!!!!!!!!!!

♥Diva Essentials♥ Part 1

2008-06-24T05:42:00.000-07:00

Now what I’m about to do is give you a few diva essentials to help you become a diva. Now like I said help. I can’t make you a diva that comes from within. Now I’ll start with the basics. A diva always has influences. People who influenced them and who they look up to. Now the purpose of my blog is showing my influence and people of inspiration. Now a diva a true diva has her ups and her downs, her good days and her bad days. But she never lets it affect her personality when she’s handling her business. When it comes to work she puts her feelings aside and does her job. A diva is kind hearted she knows when and were to do certain things. Like I said before there is a time and place for everything. Divas like myself have a soft spot in their lives and hearts for epidemics in this world. She supports some kind of cause. Like I am 100% in support of the breast cancer foundation. No i may not know anyone personally with breast cancer but so what does that mean that i cant care? No it doesn't cause i do care more than a little bit. Because you never know if someone close to you or even yourself could have a brush with a disease, any disease for that matter. I support many other causes but that’s me. What about you... Ok now other than a caring heart a diva is known for her accessories.
Now every diva when you see her always has a purse of some sort it just never fails. What’s in the purse of a diva? I'll let you inside and tell you.

Now lets start with the basics. You have you wallet of course. Cause you know a diva is shopping even when she not. So the wallet is a must cause you never know while your out you may see something real cute and say to yourself...Hmmm I wonder if they have that in my size lol. As you can tell i know this cause I do it mostly all the time lol. Now for those divas that wear make-up that’s next ya make up bag. Now u know most divas carry around these huge purses I mean it’s for a reason people lol. Now Most of my purses are clutches that’s cause I don’t wear make-up all I need is my wallet an my lipgloss. But please believe my baby has brought his wife a few big purses that will pull out and pics will be available. Aside from the make up will be ya scented lotion, Now my choice is strawberries and champagne by Victoria secrets. But a diva loves to smell her very best so she has her lotion because your lotion is like a perfume. Now I’ve carried around my perfume before but started to carry the lotion that smells just like it. It’s just as strong as the perfume and less hassle. Now I would say ya cell phone but most divas keep it within ear reach so for most of them it stays in their hand. For those divas with class such as myself we have an extra little purse on the inside of our purse. Inside of that purse we keep our products for the time my bookie dreads the most. That time of the month lol. Now most females just grab a handful of tampons/pads and just throw them inside their purse. Now I used to do that until they started making the period purse as i call it lol. But that is a must have I mean think about it. Your out at a restaurant and you know you need to change your product. How would it look if you excused yourself from the table holding a big ole pad or a tampon in ya hand? So not lady likes. So with this little purse it'll look like your going to freshen up which is true. So ladies its a must have trust me. Now I’m not gonna tell you what to carry in your purse this is just giving you an idea. If you have that diva instinct you'll know what else you need. With that said this is gonna conclude this part of diva essentials. Until part 2 stay fabulous.

♥Veronica(Virgo Diva-Goddess)&hearts;

Hood Diva "Remy Ma"

2008-06-23T16:04:00.000-07:00

♥Remy Ma♥

Remy Smith i love this girls style. Her motto is my motto. "Give me me heels or give me sneakers, Either way i'll pull it off."

She is known as "The Bronx Diva"The Picture Below Proves This.

Now alot of people dont respect her lyrically. I respect her style cause its no holds bar. I also love her lyrically cause i can relate to her on most of her songs. My bookie know my theme song is "Conceited" lol, and whateva." But aside from that remy is my girl when it comes to dressing. I mean yea in 2005 she picked up the " best-female hip-hop" award. But i'm not really into rap like that. I am a diva the first thing that catches me about a person is the outfit.

Yea my girl got convited to 8yrs. For shooting this chick in the pic next to her in the abdomen.

But never mind that heffa in the red dress(lol). Lets take a look at remys leather vest i am so loving it. To be honest i don't think my breast would agree with it(They'd Be Some attention getters lol) But i love this vest on her. It's very unique. now i dont know if she was the first person to wear it, but she's the first person that i seen with it on. Anyhow she's rockin it and i would too. But only with my bookie by my side cause i'll cause a riot lol.

Like i said remy to me does it in heels and sneakrs. Me an remy have some things in common. No not just our last names lol. But we both have that tomboyish side. We both have our days to still be a diva in sneakers. But when we go diva we give them attitude.

Now i'll give u guys this. My next to hood divas over the course of two weeks will be, Next week my bookies love, Foxy brown The ill nana herself. Then Lil kim. Now i do have more but i wont do them all at once. But the point of these hood diva blogs are not to give you their life stories. But to show you that its ok to be hood and a diva. Now being a diva comes with having class. Now you hoodrats and project wenches i aint talking to you. Cause as for a diva most of ya'll dont know that it's a time and place for everything. But my said hood divas know when and where to do what.

until next week i'll leave you with this quote and yes its my own. "Your only as fabulous as you allow yourself to be, Don't let the jealousy of others stop you from being You, and stop you form expressing The person You Are By What you wear, Cause truth be told the wanna be just as fabulous as you."

♥Veronica"Diva,Goddess, Queen Of Me"♥

---->To My Bookie<-------

I just want to let you know that i love you and i love the fact that you never allow anyone to change you or your outlook on what you stand for, Keep doing exactly what you do cause i wouldn't have you anyother way. I know you said that those that you dated b4 me wanted to change you and everything you stand for, But i would never do that to you because i love you just the way you are. ♥

Love ya Queen

♥Alicia Keys♥

2008-06-17T14:13:00.000-07:00

Alicia Keys.

This Week My Diva Of The Week Award Goes To None Other Than My Girl. Alicia Keys.

I love everything about her. Alicia Keys is very talented. She can sing and dress her behind off just look at the pic above. I so want those shoes lol.

Her birth name is Alicia J. Augello-Cook. She's Irish, Italian And Jamaican. As we all know she is a very talented piano player. She started playing at the age of 7. She studied the works of Mozart, And Beethoven. She graduated at 16 and was nominated Valedictorian. Thats what i call brains. She was accepted to Columbia University but dropped out to prusue her music career.

Her nickname is "Lellow." In 2001 she was named Peoples Magazines Breakthrough stars. In 2002 she was named one of the 50 most beautiful people by peoples magazine. She appeared on the cover of Vanity Fair, Vibe, Seventeen, And Teen magazines. She wrote her first song at 14. She is An honorary member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority Inc.

Here Are Some Of my Favorite Quotes By Her.

I always want to stay focused on who I am, even as I'm discovering who I am.

I think music and socialism and politics have always gone hand in hand. As artists we used to be way more instrumental in providing a soundtrack to the heartbeat of what's going on in the world. We all don't have to think the same thing but it's important to state what we think. There is such a fear of termination of one's career if they have any intelligent thought about politics and that's messed up.

What i admire most about Alicia Keys is She is A Supporter Of The Aids Epedimic. She Supports The Hunger Issuses In Africa. She is very dedicated and she inspires me to fight for what i believe in. Alicia Keys Is Truly A Diva. She has poise, class, style, And brains. She Is What A True Woman A True Diva. I love Alicia Keys And You Should Too.

For The Next Two Divas Its Gonna Be My "Hood Divas" So Get Ready...

♥Fathers Day Tribute♥

2008-06-14T13:50:00.000-07:00

♥7/16/1998 Was a very hard day for me. I lost the closest person to me my dad.

Since he's been gone its been sooooo hard for me. A pain that no one Can understand. My dad was my everything i loved him with all my heart.

As i type this crying and with tears running down my face, I can't help but wish he was here. Its been such a struggle dealing with this. Next Month It'll be 10years ago Since I Lost my Bestfriend. Everyday i think about how it would be if he was still here. He would has loved all his grand kids and those to come. At times i find myself asking god why? But its obvious that he wanted and needed you with him. Daddy theres not a moment that goes by that your not on my mind. I wish you were here to see the woman and diva(lol) that i've become. I am in a relationship that you always used to tell me that i deserved. Dad he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and i love him more than anything i just wish that you could be here to meet him. Daddy my love for you will never die. Its so hard for me to even write this now cause i can't stop myself from crying the pain is still unbearable. But i'll make it as long as i keep god with me and in my heart hes assured me everything is going to be alright, and just fine.♥

♥Happy Fathers Day Daddy♥

I Love You R.I.P

HAPPY 23RD BIRTHDAY BOOKIE!!!!!!!

2008-06-13T22:17:00.000-07:00

♥♥Right now i just wanna take time out to tell the love of my life Happy Birthday And Many More. I Love you Baby With All My Heart And Sooooooo Much More. I Want You To Enjoy Your DAy To The Fullest. Live It Up. Live For Today And Dont Worry About Tomorrow. I love you baby♥♥

Diva Of The Week

2008-06-09T17:14:00.001-07:00

Kimora Lee

Ok after doing her bestfriend(Tyra Banks). You know i had to do the diva herself.

Right here is my girl Kimora. I love everything about her from her attitude, to her personal style, also her knowledge of what a true diva really is. For those who know and for those who dont, she's half black, one quater korean and one quarter japanese. Her daddy is black and her momma is half korean and half japanese.

Growing up she was always known as the "Chinky Giraffe." As beautiful as she is you would have never known that at the tender age of 15 she was driving got into an accident and had to have 40 stiches in her face.

At the age of 13 she had a modeling contract with Chanel.

She was proven to be a diva at an early age. Now lets get to the real diva in her shall we?

This lady has accomplished many things in her life. She has a very succesful clothing line(Baby Phat). Which might i add she has her two divalicious daughters Ming Lee And Aoki model for the childrens line(Gotta love how she's starting them off young). Now This 6Ft 4in Woman(In Heels 6ft 1in Without) Is not only an entrepenur she is an insperation to many young woman thats trying to make something out of their lives. In August 2007 she had her own T.V. show air its called "Life In The Fab Lane." All you can do is respect her because not only has she made a name for herself she also helps others make a nme for themselves in her book called "FABULOSITY" A must read(I had it but it got stolen lol gonna get another one).

What i love about her is her passion and her drive and determination. She has an extensive collection of Manolo Blahiks(Yes I Am Envious lol). She has her own perfume line and she donates millions to charities every year. Even though one flaw about her sticks out to me. In 2004 she was pulled over and charged with the possesion of marajuana. But she still remains a diva. She's a trendsetter and a fashion guru. She also has a jewlery line. See when i for divas i not only look for style or beauty. I look for accompishments, dedicated and educated woman. Those who make diffrences not only in their own lives but the lives of others. Because being the diva that i am(If i may throw myself in here). I love to see others happy by what i can do to help make a change for the better in their lives because it makes me happy. I love to love and be loved by all. Of course you'll run into a few haters but its to be expected. because what they need is love themselves. So love your haters because they make you realize that no matter what you can always move forward in whatever ya heart desires and still make even your haters want better for themselves. So this here comcludes my diva of the week.

Diva Of The Week

2008-06-02T11:58:00.000-07:00

Tyra Banks

Ok this right here is my girl Tyra Lynne Banks. She is a diva in her own right. She is named as one of the 50 most beautiful people in the world. She has done alot. She started her own scholorship in 1994. She is a retired professional model. She has one of the mosted watched talk shows, and T.V. shows. Americas Next top Model. She was the first african american model to appear on the cover of sports illustrated. Plus her momma is a professional photographer ok... lol

She even received a michael award for supermodel of the year. She has been ranked repeately as one of the worlds most influetial by time magazine. In 2007 her estimated earnings for the year was $18 millon. Know aside from that she has a taste for style and adventure. Tyra among most females influences me alot because she has drive and ambition. She lets nothing that no one has to say stop her from doing what she wants. Now anyone who knows me, know i dont care what no one says imma do what i want simple as that. I love tyra cause she keeps it real to the upmost not only is she beautiful she is a kind, caring and loving person. She lets people know that it's ok to look a certin way as long as you love yourself and belive in yourself you can go very far in life. Reach for greatness and nothing less. One of my favorite quotes by her is. "Self-love has very little to do with how you feel about your outer self. It's about accepting all of yourself. You've got to learn to accept the fool in you as well as the part that's got it goin' on."

Another One Is. "Black women have always been these vixens, these animalistic, erotic women. Why can't we be the sexy All-American girl next door?"

This alone is why Tyra Banks is a diva and my Diva Of The Week. Respect her cause she deserves it. She has done alot for under privaleged girls, giving them chances to see the up side and the down side of the business. I Respect her and she is such a great influence in my eyes.

My Diva Influences

2008-06-01T19:13:00.000-07:00

These woman that i'm getting ready to tell you about are divas who influence me for many diffrent reasons.

It can be from their sense of style, their education, most of all because of there personalitiies. A diva is more than just a cute face, nice body, and sense of fashion and these woman have it all and then some.

First up is my girl

Beyonce Knowles

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I've heard alot of females hating on beyonce. Why? I have no clue I love beyonce. Since Destinys Child. She is one of my favorite female vocal singers.

What makes Beyonce a diva? how dare anyone ask that Lets See. She's a singer, song writer and producer, And Actress lets not forget a fashion icon. Now no one can sit her and say that this girl dont be dressing her behind off cause they know she do. The house of deron line is hot. Not only is she dating my man Jay-Z. But if you haven't noticed beyonce is making history in many diffrent ways. She's one of the most marketable artist, She has a body to die for and she's very beautiful. Beyonce Knowles embodies everything that a diva stands for. She comes from a line of designers in her family starting with her grandmom and now her mom. She Is A Diva That Inspires me To Reach For More Greatness. She Is My #1 Diva Influence I Respect Her Highly.

Next My Girl Monique

Ok not only is Monique a big girl But She is a sexy, divalicious big girl.

I love everything about monique, From her Sense of style might i add this girl right here doesn't play around when it comes to getting dressed. Monique gets it in when it comes to dressing ok, She be sharp. I love everything she wears. When she was hosting the Apollo she was doing her thing every single night from her head down to her shoes. She loves the skin she's in. You don't have to be a skinny girl, model looking type to be a diva. Because most of these bigger woman Like Jill Scott, And Monique, And Kelly Price. They Step Out Better Than Some Of These Model Types And Skinny Hoes(LoL). But a diva can come in all shapes, Sizes, and Nationalities. I also love moniques since of humor and her personality. She Tells It Like It Is And Thats That.

Now I Have More Many More Diva Influences. But I wont feed them all At Once. I'll Do Them Weekly. As My Diva Of The Week. Because I can Sit Here Alll Night But I'm Not lol So These Two Right Here Hands Down Influenced Me Alot Over The Years.

Dream Come True

2007-11-15T11:15:00.000-08:00

Since the day i first saw you in 1999 I knew then and there that i'd make you mines. Now 7 years later it's too good to be true That on December 11, 2006 my dream came true Now i'm in love with no one other than u. Your all i ever wanted and your all i 'll ever need. Whenever your around all i see is stars. Cause i'm in love with only youM.E.B. JR!!!!!

What Is A Virgo Diva To Me?

2007-11-15T10:26:00.000-08:00

First things first what is a virgo. Well for starters its my zodiac sign, September 16 to be exact.

Now the dictionary defenition of a diva reads.
Diva-Originally used for great female opera singers usually sopranos.a Prima Donna

Now heres my defnition of a Diva.
Diva-(In veronica's Retrospective)A diva to me is some one who embodies greatness. Someone who not only has a great sense of style and beauty, But has brains as well. A diva to me carries herself like a lady at all times. She also Is Compassionate But Not Weak. Very Opinonated And always on top of her game.