Why is it that when your single it seems as if no one wants to be bothered with you? But as soon as you are in a relationship every man in the world is trying to get your attention? Its called a test people you must learn to resist temptation it can get you in a world of trouble. The reason why the men want you when you begin a new relationship is because the man that you with gave you glow, a new attitude, and, a new walk. The men all over the world can see how radiant you are. Don't allow that temptation ruin that glow. Stick with the man that gave you that glow, attitude, and walk because that temptationn will take it all away and leave you high and dry. Always choose commitment over temptation. Temptation doesn't want a commitment, temptation wants to be with you for just that moment because after you allow temptation in the glow that commitment created slowly but surely fades away, and to temptation you no longer look the same, you no longer look the way you did to them. As the saying goes thr grass is not greener on the other side. Don't lose your treasure by chasing a dime.
Ok, so as of late i've been hearing alot of females saying there aren't any good men and that men are all the same that they all want one thing. Men only take what you set out for them, if your constantly flaunting your self in front of them, o course they're onlygonna want one thing. We as women have to learn how to love ourselves first, because if you don't love yourself no one else will. You have to learn how to find yourself, be confident in your ability to grow within yourself before you try to make someone else love you. You have to set limits when your searching for someone to be apart of your life. Make sure you have your priorities in check and that you have something to offer in the relationship other than your body. Know what you want in a relationship before you go looking for one, You'll end up with alot of heartbreak by setteling for less. A relationship takes work, it has stages so that it can grow. 
