Powerful Couple #3 Tisha Campbell And Duane Martin♥

Tisha Campbell and Duane Martin are one of those couples that are put on the back burner to all these Hollywood most talked about couples. They have been together for 17yrs and married for 11yrs and in the words of Duane "i ain't going nowhere,
I will chew her a** up and swallow it before I let somebody else have her". What i love about this couple is when he proposed to her he didn't say the traditional "will you marry me" or "will you be my wife" he said "Will you be my best friend forever". It really doesn't get much better than that. For the past few years there has been rumors that they were divorced and split up. The things media does just to get a story smh. But contrary to what people thing this couple is still together ans still very much in love. The couple has survived many rumors including her husband being gay, through it all they make it work and i love that about them. The couple also has two son, The oldest name is Xen he is a child that is autistic. The couple deals with it just like anyone else would they give their son the best care and education that is needed for him but they treat him just like a normal child they don't treat him any different from their other son Ezekiel. They go on to say that having a son who is autistic makes you empathize with others, they feel that things could be worst but glad that they are not. I mean no parent wants their child to have any type of illness we all want our kids to be healthy but in the event that they are not we make the most of it be cause there is no use crying over spilled milk. The couple are active supporters and participants at many functions for Autistic children an they support it 100%. They let the rumors ride because they do not encourage or entertain the rumors. The reason i so love this couple is the same reason why i love all powerful couples, they have stand ed the tests of time and they are really and deeply in love its not just for the camera its the real thing and i love that about them, one known fact is that they hooked up my first powerful couple Will and Jada. For the way they love each other and there family life and their dedication to each other is the reason why Tisha and Duane are one of my powerful couples.

Powerful Couple #2 Angela Bassett and Courtney Vance

Angela Bassett and her Husband Courtney Vance are such a lovely couple. To me they are one of those couples that are forgotten about because they like to live their lives out of the limelight.
The coupke has been married for 13 yrs and they share two twin childrn(1boy 1girl). They like my last powerful couple have standed the test of time and temptations in their busy career. They are also successful actor and actress. What i love most about this couple is their commitment to one another. They are both private people(so paparazzi fall back) and they are both God fearing. Angela i look up to because i find she loves to reach out and help others less fortunate than her. She donates money and her time to many organizations for terminally ill people(I'm support the breast cancer foundation for now, when i get big time like her i wanna help terminally ill children with cancer). She takes not just herself to these events but she also takes her 2 children so that they can see it's people out her in this world that need help. She also does it so that her children learn to appreciate everything in life that they have because it is always some one out there that's worst off than you are. Courtney on the other hand is the same way. He an his wife are big supporters of the Boys & Girls club. I suggest people look into this couple they have done alot for people and they are what i can honestly call a powerful couple beside every great man is a great woman and i can use this quote on them and feel great about it. See they maybe rich and wealthy but they also know how to give back which is the reason why they are truly blesses. Not to mention Angela Bassett looks good to be 52(lol). But seriously i so look up to there marriage and i ask that god continues to bless them. before i leave i just wanna say, Be careful how you treat a stranger, because you might be entertaining an angel unaware(its in the bible).

Where I've been......

OK so I've been absent for a few days and here's why. First off i was sick and when i say sick i mean ill. i had cough, cold, congestion, all of thee above. Then i went on vacation so i was wrapped up in that. But now i am back and i have a Lot to blog about I'm on my couples kick this week and the entry below starts it off. I have a few powerful couples to blog about then I'm back to the help of my females out there. When I'm blogging about females and helping them it's coming from my own personal experience most of the time and what i learned from it. I wanna help the next woman out there that might go through the same things i want them to be well prepared, because i know i wasn't. I'm not up here to judge anyone because who am i to judge, I'm only human just like the next person is. But I'm up here to offer advice to those in need. I wish someone was around to do it before me because it would've helped me through my rough and tough times. What needs to be realized is we as women have got to learn to stick together and not try and compete all the time. Life is too short for the bull. So I'm here to say lets get it together sisters(black and white i don't discriminate) because all we have is each other. With that said my goal is to uplift as well as educate. So from here on out I'll try my hardest to do at least one post a day(after school or before school even after homework). So blog world here i come, here i am♥

Powerful Couple #1 Will And Jada♥

They say beside every great man is a great woman. In this case it is so true. Will and Jada are a powerful, loving, and successful black couple. They've withstand the tests of time and they've jumped over every obstacle together. Through the limelight, this harsh society, and even with their busy careers they've made it work. I admire Will and Jada's relationship because they're able to be lovers and best friends. they kept the spark going for 13 years. Together they can be serious, professional, and goofy all at the same time. The really compliment each other and they are very family oriented. The thing that most relationships lack is the ability to make it. They let pressure and others get to them and forget to communicate with their spouse. When times get tough they wanna run out because they are scared of the What Ifs. Every relationship/marriage goes in cycles and if you want it to work you need each other. People look at Will and Jada and say "they're rich and successful of course they made it last all this time." Wrong, do you see how many rich and successful couples don't make it? It has nothing to do with what they have. There were times when their careers kept them apart for days ,weeks,months at a time but they made it work because of their love and dedication for one another. Their jobs as actor and actress is how they met in the first place, so of course they're not gonna let their jobs come between them. Here are some quotes from Will and Jada on their marriage and love by both Will and Jada.

Jada: "I will throw my career away before I let it break up our marriage. I made it clear to Will. I'd throw it away completely."
Source: USA Weekend

Will about Jada: "With Jada I stood up in front of God and my family and said, 'till death us do part'. Divorce cannot be an option ... I honestly believe there is no woman for me but Jada. No-one can handle me the way she does ... Once you feel someone locked in on you, it's no contest. This is it. I can't imagine what anyone else would offer."

Will about Jada: "She's someone I can talk to about anything."
Source: Ebony, February 1997, page 57.

Will: "Families are like a business. The key is one person having a vision of what it needs to be and being able to pull everyone together. That's Jada for sure."

Will and Jada to me are the definition of one of the sucessful black couples that i truely admire. You can say whatever you want about them, but one thing you can't say is that they failed be cause despite what you may think they are madly in love with each other, and they're love is real. So before i go i just wanna say True love, Real love still exists. Don't count it out because you don't have it, it just hasn't found you yet.

Fighting Temptation

Why is it that when your single it seems as if no one wants to be bothered with you? But as soon as you are in a relationship every man in the world is trying to get your attention? Its called a test people you must learn to resist temptation it can get you in a world of trouble. The reason why the men want you when you begin a new relationship is because the man that you with gave you glow, a new attitude, and, a new walk. The men all over the world can see how radiant you are. Don't allow that temptation ruin that glow. Stick with the man that gave you that glow, attitude, and walk because that temptationn will take it all away and leave you high and dry. Always choose commitment over temptation. Temptation doesn't want a commitment, temptation wants to be with you for just that moment because after you allow temptation in the glow that commitment created slowly but surely fades away, and to temptation you no longer look the same, you no longer look the way you did to them. As the saying goes thr grass is not greener on the other side. Don't lose your treasure by chasing a dime.

What Are Your Worth?

Ok, so as of late i've been hearing alot of females saying there aren't any good men and that men are all the same that they all want one thing. Men only take what you set out for them, if your constantly flaunting your self in front of them, o course they're onlygonna want one thing. We as women have to learn how to love ourselves first, because if you don't love yourself no one else will. You have to learn how to find yourself, be confident in your ability to grow within yourself before you try to make someone else love you. You have to set limits when your searching for someone to be apart of your life. Make sure you have your priorities in check and that you have something to offer in the relationship other than your body. Know what you want in a relationship before you go looking for one, You'll end up with alot of heartbreak by setteling for less. A relationship takes work, it has stages so that it can grow.

Ladies need to understand that they must treat themselves as queens. A man will respect you if you show that you have respect for yourself. NEVER allow a man take that from you, because he can break you if he takes your self-respect from you then you'll be like putty in his hand.

The last thing i wanna say is stay strong, Stay true, be you♥

A Poets Moment

As i sit here i close my eyes i invison you sitting right by my side, we decide to take a ride on passions wave, you tell me to relax as you misbehave. I lay back and obey and let you have your way. As i feel the passion increase i tell you to stop and to dive in deep, my wish is your command and what i feel next makes the world collapse and whats left is you and me making love endlessly.