They say beside every great man is a great woman. In this case it is so true. Will and Jada are a powerful, loving, and successful black couple. They've withstand the tests of time and they've jumped over every obstacle together. Through the limelight, this harsh society, and even with their busy careers they've made it work. I admire Will and Jada's relationship because they're able to be lovers and best friends. they kept the spark going for 13 years. Together they can be serious, professional, and goofy all at the same time. The really compliment each other and they are very family oriented. The thing that most relationships lack is the ability to make it. They let pressure and others get to them and forget to communicate with their spouse. When times get tough they wanna run out because they are scared of the What Ifs. Every relationship/marriage goes in cycles and if you want it to work you need each other. People look at Will and Jada and say "they're rich and successful of course they made it last all this time." Wrong, do you see how many rich and successful couples don't make it? It has nothing to do with what they have. There were times when their careers kept them apart for days ,weeks,months at a time but they made it work because of their love and dedication for one another. Their jobs as actor and actress is how they met in the first place, so of course they're not gonna let their jobs come between them. Here are some quotes from Will and Jada on their marriage and love by both Will and Jada.
Jada: "I will throw my career away before I let it break up our marriage. I made it clear to Will. I'd throw it away completely."
Source: USA Weekend
Will about Jada: "With Jada I stood up in front of God and my family and said, 'till death us do part'. Divorce cannot be an option ... I honestly believe there is no woman for me but Jada. No-one can handle me the way she does ... Once you feel someone locked in on you, it's no contest. This is it. I can't imagine what anyone else would offer."
Will about Jada: "She's someone I can talk to about anything."
Source: Ebony, February 1997, page 57.
Will: "Families are like a business. The key is one person having a vision of what it needs to be and being able to pull everyone together. That's Jada for sure."
Will and Jada to me are the definition of one of the sucessful black couples that i truely admire. You can say whatever you want about them, but one thing you can't say is that they failed be cause despite what you may think they are madly in love with each other, and they're love is real. So before i go i just wanna say True love, Real love still exists. Don't count it out because you don't have it, it just hasn't found you yet.
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